And, there does not seem to be any leisure bras for large breasted women. Certainly, there are none to fit a J-cup! As for chasing the sister (mine are more monsters), they arrive a heartbeat before the rest of me. I go braless most days. However, I wrap-tie an all cotton tank-top into the closest approximation of a leisure bra I'm ever likely to see. It's so much more comfortable and takes the stress off my shoulders and neck.