Basically though, you decide what that love can be. And you decide that every other information or discernment must be wrong – even from people who dedicate every single day of their lives to the deepest scholarship on the Bible.

You wrote in your other response that science and logic are not needed. That is, essentially, claiming authority for yourself. It casts everything that disagrees with your self-appointed doctrinal authority as heresy, as non-belief.

That's not sharing His love. His love doesn't condemn – not even with sophist reasoning wrapped in empty apologies.

JSYK, any statement you have to apologize for will be taken as unkind. If it wasn't unkind, you'd have no need to profer apologies.