Everyone in this society grows up with blatant grooming. It's just that the grooming is to be heterosexual. Grooming happens every time a sensitive boy or young man is told to, "man up" when they display emotion – or heaven forbid, they cry. Grooming happens a little girl or boy playing together is teased by adults for being boyfriend and girlfriend. Grooming happens every time little boys and little girls are egged on to kiss each other – because it's just so "impossibly cute."
By conservative definitions, just acknowleging the existence of LGBTQ people, or associating with them is "grooming" and makes people gay. By their own metrics, it begs the obvious question: If it were really so simple to create someone's sexuality just by association, then how the hell are there any LGBTQ people?!
The idea isn't just rediculous opinions. It's infuriating and destructive fear mongering!