I have to disagree with you on this one. My husband and I have been married more than twenty-six years. Yes, we’ve had arguments and been angry. But, we have made a concerted effort to never part or go to sleep angry. It’s not easy, but, as we’ve found, the key is to realize that sometimes, you just have to let things go for the moment. That doesn’t mean you won’t circle back to the issue –– and, trust me, you WILL come back to the issue, you may well even argue and get angry about it all over again… maybe. We’ve found that by letting it go at the moment, it allows us space to calm down, think about each other’s perspective, and come back to the issue both better prepared and more understanding of the other person’s point of view WITHOUT the immediate anger of that frustrating moment.