I so identify with this! Do you have any idea how often and how long I've looked for a J-cup liesure or sports bra? They simply do NOT exist!

And, omigosh, there is no bra-fitter trained anywhere to handle that!

Interestingly, the kindest and least degrading bra fitting I ever had was for my maternity bras – which had to be precisely measured for and special ordered. That bra-fitter actually did her level best to make the experience as little awkward as possible. But, it was easy to tell she'd never had to fit a J-cup maternity bra before.