It's such a lunatic perspective for anyone to believe that kind of un-evolved crap. The truth has always been that girls grow up being groomed for an entire lifetime of fitting men's desires. We're groomed to be what they desire and told we are responsible for how they take their desires – even when it's against our wills.
Little boys and girls are groomed by respected men in positions of power and influence over them. Those "respectable" men scar those children's souls. Then discard them when they are no longer children.
But sure, you and your consensual partners just living your lives is the real grooming. Phwh!