We didn't exchange gifts this year. With our son's moving help and my medicine and medical expenses, gifts weren't in the offing. But, my husband's store gave the workers 20% off, so he was able to get us a perfect rib roast, and all the feast trimmings as part our regular grocery budget without skipping pantry necessities.

I like gifts, but honestly, I really don't mind not getting gifts. We can't afford it. The reality is that every year with my husband and son is more than I ever thought I'd have. I didn't grow up with that sense of loyalty and safety. But, my husband and son give me that all the time. This year, his partner joined us for Christmas dinner; she's such a lovely, kind person.