We've all been there. I more often felt I was lacking through some fault in me. That's the message I got growing up -- if things weren't right it was due to failings in me. It could only ever be my fault. And yes, that left me feeling envious many times.

It's hard not to still feel that way sometimes. Mostly, I feel empathy for someone in turmoil. Well... except Trump and his coconspirators. There's all kinds of schadenfreude there.