Why is it an idea at all? Why must it always come down to a choice or an imposition upon our sexuality. Why is there even a suggestion that we women should sacrifice our sexual liberty in yet another battle blow to our bodies and our lives?

It also operates on the assumption that only men will be hurt by it. Women enjoy sex too. It's a huge part of our recreational lives in our relationships. But, we are being advised to sever that part of our lives from ourselves, to further diminish ourselves, to turn ourselves into a weapon to hurt men. [cringe]