You seem to be saying that men who cheat lie about it to avoid being sad or making someone sad about the betrayal of cheating. And, no realizing a girl is jailbait is still that dude's responsibility. HE'S THE ADULT. A woman's physique has nothing to do with lying and cheating.

Lying is a choice. Cheating is a choice. Lying about cheating is a choice. All those choices are moral and ethical failings. And those failings are all the dude's responsibility.

This whole article seems to be mansplaining how the girl or woman is really to blame for the man's moral turpitude. The poor little man can't possibly be honest, loyal, and forthright with the women in his life all by his adult self.